Life

Ever wonder why life is the way it is for some, and others it is so much different? I wonder this alot lately, as I have been struggling with some different things that have been going on. Whether it is personal, or family issues, relationship related, financial, you name it.

So many people make certain things in life seem so endlessly easy, and a natural occurance for them. You never see them struggle with the same issues as others have. You wonder why cant your life be like that at times, or just once even...

But in the end you know that everything does happen for a reason and that God has a plan for all of us.

A preview

REWINDING BACK TO THE DEBUT;

WHEN LOVE WAS NEW,

AN ANIMATED ATTRACTION; ACHIEVED BY SPECIAL EFFECTS

ELABORATELY STAGED; SO THAT YOU WOULDN'T SUSPECT

AND SOON THE AUDIENCE QUIETS; THEY ONLY WHISPER TO CRITICIZE,

THE END SHOULDN'T HAVE BEEN A SURPRISE

A DREAMS DEMISE

WITH LOVE YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE TO IMPROVISE

SO NOW YOU MOTION THROUGH LIFE LIKE A COMATOSE SOUL

WITH NO DEFINING ROLE

NO LONGER INTERESTED IN RUNNING SCRIPT;OR READING THROUGH THE LINES,

SHATTERED HEARTS DON'T BEAT; THEY JUST PANTOMIME

YOU TRY TO FAST FORWARD TO THE END BUT IT ONLY REENACTS THE START,

FORCED TO SIT THROUGH THE CURTAIN CALL;BEFORE YOU CAN DEPART,

UNTIL YOU DESPERATELY, ACCEPT THE PART

OF A TYPECAST HEART.

Save your relationship effectively

Here are some simple ways that can save a relationship.

Communicate with your partner. Communication is one of the most effective keys. This should always be included in the list as to why more and more couples these days break up without even admitting the real reason why things did not turn out the way they expected them to be for their relationship. So when things are getting out of hand, partners should talk things over and speak about their resentment before it is too late.

Through communication, both will have a clear picture of what is going on, why the conflict is happening, and what relationship rescue methods can be done to help pass this period.

Know when to keep quiet. Although silence could not be the best solution to save a relationship, but it does contribute a lot so the problem will not annoy you. Most often, when couples are having conflicts, they tend to talk too much, as a result, they neglect one of the most important parts of a relationship and that is listening.

Partners should know when to keep quiet during a heated argument. It is not a good idea to raise voices, shout at each other or, even worse, resort to physical violence to silence the other. When both are angry, they should let their heavy emotions decrease first before speaking, because more often than not, an angry person speaks without reasoning.

Spend time to be alone for a while. If communication and keeping in silence did not work as part of the relationship rescue scheme, spending time alone could be the best thing to do for the meantime. Conflict can:

Strengthen the relationship
Break the relationship.
If these conflicts are repeated in circles everyday, both partners may become fed up and think that the solution is to end the relationship.

However, this can be prevented if both have some space for a while and try to review their feelings and recognise where their mistakes are. This can be an effective relationship rescue method because sometimes people realise the importance of their partner when he or she is not around.

Both partners should realise that ending the relationship is not always the best solution to ending a conflict. Follow these relationship rescue methods instead, to resolve them. No matter what conflicts there are in a relationship, both partners to make their relationship even stronger by confronting and solving the conflict

a poem for my baby

No matter what our troubles, I still love you,
As though a part of me were also you.
Life isn’t easy, but I know without you
There will be bitterness in all I do.
I feel the broken heaven in my heart,
The blight that will outlast the years of healing,
The darkness underneath all time and art,
The pain that from within there’s no concealing.
We were so much in love when we first met,
A river that would reach, in time, the sea.
We ought not let despair turn to regret,
But be through choice what love chose us to be.
No love can last except it be through will.
Were wastelands in our path, I’d love you still.

NO MORE ABUSE OF OUR WOMEN

FIRST OF ALL ANY MAN THAT HITS A WOMAN IS A PUNK, COWARD, AND LESS OF A MAN. IF YOU MUST HIT HER, YOU DON’T NEED BE WITH HER. WHAT’S THE LOGIC BEHIND MEN HITTING WOMEN ANYWAY? IS TO HAVE THEIR MASCULINITY TO THRIVE IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP. I’N NOT TALKING ABOUT THE GOOD MEN OUT THERE, I’M TALKING TO THOSE ABUSIVE MEN, WITH THE CHILD-LIKE ANTICS OF PASSING BLOWS TO WOMEN’S LOWER AND UPPER EXTREMITIES. WHAT RIGHT DO YOU HAVE TO DEFACE SOMETHING GOD CREATED AS A MASTERPIECE FOR YOU AND HIMSELF? AND WHAT’S THAT MASTERPIECE YOU MIGHT ASK? WOMEN! THAT’S WHAT MASTERPIECE! THIS IS FOR ALL THOSE GUTLESS, SPINE-LESS, AND OFTEN TIMES PSYCHOLOGICALLY DISTURBED MEN, WHO FROM CHILDHOOD WAS ABUSED THEMSELVES. I’M TALKING TO THOSE INDIVIDUALS WHO BEAT WOMEN LIKE IT’S A CONTACT SPORT, I’M TALKING TO THOSE MEN, WHO’S A CHILD IN A MAN’S BODY. YOU’RE OUT THERE BEATING OUR MOTHERS, HIS SISTERS, MY AUNTS, THEIR NIECES, AND ALL OF OUR GRANDMAS. DON’T DEFACE WHAT GOD CONSIDERS HIS GREATEST MASTERPIECE BESIDE MEN THEMSELVES. WOMEN ARE LOVING, BEAUTIFUL, SEXY , SOFT, CURVY, MOTHERLY, AND ALWAYS HAVE THEIR ARMS OUT TO HUG US UNCONDITIONALLY. THEY BIRTH US FROM MESSY DIAPERS, THEY WIPED OUT SNOTTY NOSES, THEY KISSED OUR INJURIES, LIKE WHEN WE FELL OFF THE SWING AND SLIDING BOARDS. I CONTINUE TO ENCOURAGE THOSE BROTHERS OUT THERE WHO ARE TAKING CARE OF OUR WOMEN AND I MEAN ALL NATIONALITY OF WOMEN.MEN CONTINUE TO PUT COCOA BUTTER ON HERE BRUISED BACK, MEN CONTINUE TO WIPE HER TEARS AWAY, BECAUSE HER FRAME IS BEATEN SEVERELY, MEN CONTINUE TO KEEP YOUR ARM UNDERNEATH HER HEAD AS A PILLOW TO SOFTEN HER HEAD AS SHE TRIES TO SLEEP THE PAIN AWAY, EVEN THOUGH YOUR ARM IS ARE FALLING ASLEEP. LOVE YOUR WOMEN, SYMPATHIZE WITH YOUR WOMEN, HUG YOUR WOMEN SO TIGHT TO THE POINT THAT THE ONLY PERSON THAT CAN GET IN BETWEEN YOU AND HER IS GOD ALMIGHTY HIMSELF. THE WOMEN IS MAN ELIXIR TO A HOSTILE AND CRUEL WORLD. AND WOMEN DON’T MAKE EXCUSES FOR DOMESTIC ABUSE BY THAT SIGNIFICANT OTHER. YOUR BODY IS A TEMPLE NOT TO BE BEATEN, BUT TO BE LOVED AND HONORED. IT’S NEVER OKAY TO BEAT A WOMAN. I’VE SEEN TOO MANY WOMEN THINK THAT IT WAS OKAY TO BE BEATEN. YOU HAVE CHILDREN TO RAISE WOMEN, TO BE NUTURED AND LOVED. SO DON’T LET HIM BEAT YOU TO THE POINT OF WHEN YOU START SAYING "HE BEATS ME BECAUSE HE LOVES ME" LOVE DOESN’T INJURY PHYSICALLY. WOMEN LOVE YOURSELF SO MIGHTLY, THAT IT REFLECTS THE LOVE THAT GOD HAVES FOR YOU, AND YOU WON’T LET ANOTHER MAN BEAT YOU. I’M TRYING TO BRING TO LIGHT A SUBJECT THAT SOCIETY SAYS, IT’S NONE OF OUR BUSINESS BECAUSE IT’S BEHIND THE COUPLE’S DOORS. AND I SAY THAT’S A DAMN LIE. IT IS OUR BUSINESS. WE NEED TO START TO RESPECTING WOMEN. MEN WE NEED TO TAKE OUR PLACE AS GUARDIANS AND DEFENDERS OF WOMEN AS GOD INTENDED IT TO BE. IF YOU WANT TO FIGHT SOMEONE, FIGHT ANOTHER MAN, OR BETTER YET, FIGHT A POLICE OFFICER AND LET’S SEE WHERE THAT GET’S YOU.