Your Beauty

LADIES, WOMEN, AND GIRLS, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. YOU DEFINE YOUR BEAUTY, DON’T LET MEN SIT IN THEIR CORPORATE BOARDROOMS SETTING BEAUTY STANDARDS FOR YOU. IT’S GETTING MORE COMPETITIVE FOR WOMEN OF TODAY, IN THE BEAUTY FIELD, BUT FOR WHAT? TO HAVE SOMEONE OF THE OPPOSITE SPECIES(SOMETIMES THE SAME SPECIES AS WELL) TELL YOU THAT YOU ARE NOT BEAUTIFUL, BECAUSE YOU DON’T FIT INTO THEY’RE PACKAGED IMAGE OF BEAUTY. LADIES YOU’RE KILLING YOURSELVES TRYING TO FIT INTO THE THAT IMPOSSIBLE MOLD OF THIN, FULL LIPS, AND 110 POUND FRAME THAT THEY’RE SELLING YOU. THEY’RE TELLING TO CHANGE YOU’RE HAIR COLOR, SO YOU DESTROY YOUR HAIR FOLLICALS WITH PERIOXIDE AND HAIR DYE, THEY TELL YOU LOSE WEIGHT(NOT FOR HEALTHY REASONS THOUGH), THEN YOU GOT GET THREE-FOURTHS OF YOUR STOMACH REMOVED AND STICK YOUR FINGERS DOWN YOUR MOUTH CONSTANTLY, UNTIL YOU DEVELOP BULIMIA, BEAUTY MARKETERS TELL YOU GET INTO A SIZE TWO OR SMALLER, THEN YOU GET RIBS REMOVED, THEY ALSO TELL YOU TO YOUR BREASTS ARE TOO SMALL, SO WHAT DO YOU, YOU GET BREAST IMPLANTS TO GET TO THEY ALL-AMERICAN STANDARD OF BEAUTY THAT MEN HAS SET SO HIGH FOR YOU WOMEN TO CHASE AFTER, EVEN UNTIL SICKNESS AND DEATH. THEY’RE ARE BOTCHED SURGERIES ALL THE TIME WITH WOMEN PURSUING THAT MARILYN MONROE STATUESQUE BODY. OH WOMEN, BEAUTY IS NOT YOUR LOOKS OR YOUR PERTRUDING BREASTS OR LACK OF CLOTHING. BEAUTY IS IN YOUR PERSONALITY, CHARACTER, AND HOW YOU CARRY YOURSELF. WOMEN ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL CREATURES EVER CREATED. THE ONLY MAN YOU SHOULD CONSULT ABOUT YOUR BEAUTY IS GOD, YOUR CREATOR. YOU BROKE THE MOLD WHEN HE CREATED ALL WOMAN. MOTHER HOOD IS AWESOMELY BEAUTIFUL. DON’T HARM YOUR BODY AND SELF-ESTEEM, TRYING TO LIVE UP TO STANDARDS THAT ARE IN REALITY ARE FANTASY AND IMAGINATION. YOUR FLAWS ARE BEAUTIFUL, YOUR MISHAPS ARE BEAUTIFUL, THOSE CHILDREN THAT YOU HAVE FOR THOSE MEN WHO SETS THE STANDARD OF BEAUTY ARE BEAUTIFUL. GET IT IN YOUR HEAD LADIES. YOU ARE THE ESSENCE THE ENTAILS WHAT BEAUTY IS., NOT MAN,. YOU DEFINE WITHIN YOURSELF INDIVIDUALLY WHAT’S BEAUTIFUL TO YOU. HOW CAN ANOTHER HUMAN BEING WITH FLAWS AND WHO MAKES COUNTLESS MISTAKES,(WHICH IS ALL OF US) DICTATE WHAT BEAUTY IS? HE HAS NO EXPERIENCE IN PERFECTION, BECAUSE NO ONE IS PERFECT, SO HOW CAN HE SET PERFECTION IN BEAUTY AS SOMETHING TO SHOOT FOR. THOSE WHO PROMOTE MODELS AND MOVIES STARS, ARE PART OF THE BEAUTY MARKETING MACHINE HELPING THEM TO SELL YOU THEIR IDEAS OF BEAUTY, SAYING IF YOU DON’T LOOK LIKE THEM THEN YOU’RE NOT WHAT’S HAPPENING. SO THEY TELL YOU THESE THINGS IN MAGAZINES, VIDEOS, MOVIES, COMMERCIALS, BILLBOARDS AND COUNTLESS OTHER ADVERTISEMENTS. YOUR BEAUTY IS INTERNAL , AND NOT PHYSICAL. YOUR BEAUTY INTERIOR IS JUST ENCASED BY AN EXTERIOR DRESSED TO SUPPRESS YOUR TRUE SELF. WHO YOU ARE IS WITHIN YOU AT ALL TIMES. SO WOMEN UNDERSTAND AND KNOW HOW RAVISHING, SEXY, AND ATTRACTIVE YOU ARE IN BOTH AREAS OF LIFE, INTERNALLY AND PHYSICALLY, BUT ONLY AS YOU DEFINE YOURSELF.

what a woman needs

"I bought you something while I was out", he says as he pulls out a bag from behind the sofa. She opens the bag, pulls back the decorative paper and sees an eye-catching piece of silk lingerie.

"This is beautful", she says as she holds it up to her body. Her mouth speaks one thing, but her soul screams another....

What a woman desires in a relationship, from her heart, is to feel loved. She can look around the room and see the expensive perfumes, the shimmering diamonds, the sexy lingerie....all enhancing her outer beauty, but not her heart and soul. She wants you to not only tell her that you love her, but she wants to feel it. Gifts can bring a smile on the outside, but real love makes her smile within. When a woman feels loved, you will get the best of her. She is safe with you so there is no reservation. When she feels loved, there is nothing she would withhold from you....no thoughts, no dreams, no worries. Let your gift be the gift of true love....that is what she so desires.

was it love or was it not

Was it love or was it not,

what once was certain, I have forgot,

with what instrument could I use to measure,

the value of buried treasure,

were memories diminished by time,

or magnified by the mind,

does love share the same devotion,

or even question the notion,

was it love or was it not


Is there a gain when love is lost,

is the expense equivalent to the cost,

lovers gambling,

hearts at stake,

everlasting love

or never-ending heartache

is the pain real or psychosomatic

do thoughts evoke sensation

or am I just being romantic.

Symptoms leave no indication,

still left to balance the equation,

was it love or was it not

Love

As lovers sit beside each other
eye to eye they see
how meaning full and full of love
each other shall always be
Love they say is too strong for words
and too strong to throw around
but nothing feels more like love
then listening to their hearts which pound
Love is the most incredible feeling
one usually describes with sighs
you can feel the warmth and respect
when you look into your lovers eyes
If Love should ever come within two hearts
their souls will become one

LIFE WITH LOVE!!!

As the days go by you think about your future. what you want to be? Love? Will you get married to your elementary sweetheart? Eventually... do you love them enough to marry them?
Life can be hard when you don't have one along side to help you through your struggles. When you do, they make everything so stress free. Sometimes you have to think why does he love me? What does he love about me?
You love him so, around him you feel ultimate peace, contentment, desires, and unconditional love.
I love it when he holds me tight in his arms, my body fills with ecstasy just feeling his heart beat through my hand which caresses his physique, tells me that everything will be alright. Just put your trust in him and just maybe your future entails happiness. I love you. I don't know what my life will be without you.

The feeling you give..

The feeling you give is like a cool gentle breeze on a hot summer day,

the feeling that you can accomplish anything that stands in your way.

The feeling you give can make the worst day seems fair,

even though when you need someone, no one seems to care.

The feeling you give is the kind that you can’t fake it,

because all that you have been through, you know you can make it.

The feeling you give make one tingle inside,

when others are around you, you just can’t hide.

I love the feeling that you are given to me, making me safe, care of, love,

because the only other feeling is the one I get from above.

Why do men do what they do

I had a crush on this man (Jammie) since high school. Life happend and 18 yrs later we become a couple. My dreams had come true. Well, I finally understand that saying be careful what you wish for. I truly loved this guy and he did nothing but accuse me of cheating and lying to him. I loved him so I thought love would conquor all.

Well today he ends it with me because I have been talking to people on my space. He had it in is head that I was going to cheat with people from all over the world. I’m not a rich women and I am trying to figure out how I going to finance these trist.

He had been visiting chat rooms and had communication with other women. So, when I saw my computer, he wanted to read my mail. I had no problem with it because I did nothing wrong. He erased all of his commications with other women and the chat rooms he visited.

Now that I think of it he did me a favor. I wish him luck and to learn how to trust people.